“Choose who wants you, not who you want – Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo has urged single women to rethink how they approach relationships, encouraging them to pay closer attention to men who genuinely show interest in them.

Speaking during a relationship message, he said many women make the mistake of focusing on people they desire instead of considering those who are intentionally pursuing them.

He said: “As a lady you don’t choose who you want, you choose from who wants you.”

He also encouraged women not to ignore messages or calls from potential suitors, saying, “So start answering those DMs, reply the chats and pick those calls.”

Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo said being open to getting to know people who express genuine interest allows women to make more informed decisions when choosing a partner.a